When my girls were little I bought them tiaras and when they were feeling down I would tell them they needed a little "tiara time". we'd go for ice cream or watch a movie or just talk about when they were born with our tiaras on. No talking about sad things, just princess thoughts. Everyone should feel like a princess. Sometimes we just need to be reminded of the princess we are. And every little girl should feel like momma's princess. It works for teenagers too. It works for everyone who puts on a tiara. Even in your pajamas. The paper ones are fun to make but you really got to have the rhinestones for the full effect.